by Blogger Dy Wakefield
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What outside influence “society” has impacted you?
Who You Socialize With Is Detrimental To Your Marriage?
What are your outside influences?
Are you in a group, a club and/or organization?
Who are you hanging around with?
What are their views on marriage?
Yes a wife needs time, down-time, alone time from her husband but what are you doing who are you socializing with?
Because you are in a pottering class are they asking you to hang out after the class?
Because you are in a women’s group to get the feminine vibe what are their views on marriage?
What are you watching on tv?
Is it bashing the sanctity of marriage?
Ask yourself are you being lifted up or are being bashed?
Is marriage being lifted up or is it being bashed?
Maybe you’ve had to go back to school and you have group studies are they respectful to you, your marriage? Is the study group always at an off time and day? Is this with a person of the opposite sex who knows you are married?
Are you accountable with your spouse?
Don’t forget about the order God 1st, Husband 2nd, Children 3rd, You Time 4th, Business/Job/Purpose 5th.
Proverbs 5:3-8 KJV
3For the lips of a strange woman [wrong environment, wrong societal views on marriage] drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil:
4But her [wrong environment, wrong societal views on marriage] end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.
5Her [wrong environment, wrong societal views on marriage] feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.
6Lest thou should ponder the path of life, her ways are moveable, that thou can not know them.
7Hear me now therefore, o ye children [wives], and depart not from the words of my mouth [God 1st, Husband 2nd (Pleasure Your Husband), Children 3rd, You Time 4th, Business/Job/Purpose 5th].
8Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house:
Check your environment.
How has society effective your marriage?
Because being in a wrong environment can tell you:
Your environment could be a bunch of bitter divorcees that don’t want you to have a successful marriage.
Your environment could be a male classmate that thinks you are hot and want to see if he can hook up with Mrs. Robinson.
Your environment could be talking so smooth to you it sounds like it too good to be true but it captures you with its slick and smooth words.
Know your environment.
To begin putting the pieces together for a Marriage Made in Heaven on Earth please Listen to Pleasure Your Husband Show PYH 104: You and Your Environment
Dy Wakefield is a Multi-Genre Author, Radio Host, Social Entrepreneur & Pilot in Training. I have dedicated my life to Empower Wives by Awakening the Sexual Prowess inside for their husbands, 1 Corinthians 7:3 NLT version states the husband should Fulfill his Wife's Sexual Needs. There is an inner Sex Vixen inside created by God that you haven’t tapped into. Sex & Sex Drive is a Gift from God. When you are pleasuring your husband you are pleasing God because you are performing Acts of Love and Service. You came into a covenant with God and your husband so it’s not an emotional thing but a mutual agreement.