by Blogger Dy Wakefield
Removing Shame and being Set Free
Stop blaming yourself. Stop using it as a Crutch, get Free and Love
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You have to get to a place in yourself to let it go and want to be healed if you don’t you will continue the same path you are on. Being in Jesus he removes the shame you didn’t do anything wrong this person or these people, deranged as they may be, and took advantage of you. It could have been a family member even someone you trust like your dad or your mother. It could have been your siblings but whatever the case you have to make a decision to put that in the past and allow God to heal you.
This day that you are listening to this show mark it down making a decision to let it go. Fear paralyzes you paralyze your mind your body it gives excuses it doesn’t want to let go it want to keep you locked into that place where you were abused. It affects your family your marriage your relation how you work on your job sometimes people hide it at work they can work and get paid but when they come home they put it all on the spouse. So the spouse is suffering and is experiencing the same sexual abuse that you experienced whatever age and whenever it happened. So we are going to stop it today so you can stop suffering so your spouse can stop suffering. If your spouse has been sexually abused he needs to listen to this too. So you can both be free and allow God to heal you. God can heal you completely and you will be whole to have a vibrant and healthy sex life. It’s called deliverance.
You have to get out of self, wallowing in hurt and know that you have a vow with your spouse with God and you are not doing your part. This is a vow. Marriage is a vow. There is a reason why God has those husbands and wives doing things in their vow to keep the marriage together. The marriage covenant is important to God and when you are not fulfilling no matter the circumstances you are sinning and you are breaking your covenant. God doesn’t break covenant, people do. You are hurting your husband and you are hurting too. So let’s end all the hurting and be joyous. The same thing that was stolen from you is the same thing God is going to heal you and heal your marriage. And it’s called sex. He said fuck and fuck continuously. It’s healing in sex in marriage you and your spouse. Let him heal you from sexual abuse.
So take a stand that you will not keep reliving that abuse that assault anymore that you will allow the word of God to completely and totally heal you. This is not a pity party this is not a patting on the back show this is a deliverance show and you have to let go so you can go forward and stop allowing the devil to steal from you and your marriage.
To me it’s like your soul is like DNA it holds all the traumas and dramas in your life even good things but your soul is revealing things to you. Let’s say you and your husband are about to make love and he had on some type of fragrance and that fragrance triggered something that reminded you of what this guy did to you who sexually assaulted you he had on that same cologne. So your soul is trying to talk to you reveal things to you. And you could have dreams and visions. You might be watching a TV show. You might flip out just different things but know this from God…
Prophetic Word from God
"You keep asking, where was I,
when you were sexually abused
but know this I am here now
and I can heal you and I will get
the glory for it," says God.
Abba Father these women who made a decision today to be set free I command your hand according to Acts 4:30 to heal her from sexual abuse and/or sexual assault and making her whole. Give her the spirit of forgiveness for these people. Remove these soul ties, renounce them cleanse her body of every stench of the people or person who assaulted her. Release vengeance upon these people who assaulted her and that she will see their judgment. Restore to her what was lost and stolen. Restore her marriage. Restore her marriage bed. Restore her sex drive and restore her husband. Soak her soul, heal her every area inch every area of her life. Whom the son set free is free indeed (John 8:36) and you cut this wife free from the cord of wickedness (Psalm 129:4) that signs and wonders may be performed by the Name of the Holy Child Jesus.
Be healed wife
I release the spirit of Joy over you
“You are Beautiful”
To begin putting the pieces together for a Marriage Made in Heaven on Earth please Listen to Pleasure Your Husband Show PYH 112: Sexual Abuse
Dy Wakefield is a Multi-Genre Author, Radio Host, Social Entrepreneur & Pilot in Training. I have dedicated my life to Empower Wives by Awakening the Sexual Prowess inside for their husbands, 1 Corinthians 7:3 NLT version states the husband should Fulfill his Wife's Sexual Needs. There is an inner Sex Vixen inside created by God that you haven’t tapped into. Sex & Sex Drive is a Gift from God. When you are pleasuring your husband you are pleasing God because you are performing Acts of Love and Service. You came into a covenant with God and your husband so it’s not an emotional thing but a mutual agreement.