by Blogger Dy Wakefield
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Sharing biblical perspective on oral sex
Hebrews 13:4 from the Complete Jewish Bible (CJB) Marriage is honorable in every respect; and, in particular, sex within marriage is pure. But God will indeed punish fornicators and adulterers.
What are ways to defile the bed in the scripture it states fornication and adultery. Nowadays it don’t have to be physical it could be just from sight for instance porn or just looking at another person in a lust way fantasizing about them. Then emotional adultery by getting to close with another person that is not your spouse share personal things you shouldn’t. How about masturbation you rather masturbate with yourself and be self-gratified instead of a shared masturbation with your spouse. So basically the defiling of the marriage bed is wrapped up under one word called “Selfishness.”
1 Corinthians 7:4 MSG marriage is not a place to "stand up for your rights." Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out.
Having an undefiled bed means you are serving your spouse, you are loving on your spouse.
1 Corinthians 7:3 &5 MSG
3 The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality - the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband.
5 Abstaining from sex is permissible for a period of time if you both agree to it, and if it's for the purposes of prayer and fasting - but only for such times. Then come back together again. Satan has an ingenious way of tempting us when we least expect it.
“The Five Love Languages” by Gary Chapman with Dy’s take on it
1. Words of affirmation – using words to build up the other person.
Hebrew 13:4 God wants your bed undefiled so that means you are serving your man.
Finally, sex is a shared experience an agreed upon experience so get out of your comfort zone and try something different come in agreement with your husband and agree on exploring mutual sex acts that serve each other.
Wake him up by kissing on his penis surprise him.
Remember to Pleasure Your Husband!
To begin putting the pieces together for a Marriage Made in Heaven on Earth please Listen to Pleasure Your Husband Show PYH 107: Oral Sex 2.
Dy Wakefield is a Multi-Genre Author, Radio Host, Social Entrepreneur & Pilot in Training. I have dedicated my life to Empower Wives by Awakening the Sexual Prowess inside for their husbands, 1 Corinthians 7:3 NLT version states the husband should Fulfill his Wife's Sexual Needs. There is an inner Sex Vixen inside created by God that you haven’t tapped into. Sex & Sex Drive is a Gift from God. When you are pleasuring your husband you are pleasing God because you are performing Acts of Love and Service. You came into a covenant with God and your husband so it’s not an emotional thing but a mutual agreement.