by Blogger Dy Wakefield
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What's your hangups?
Understanding hangups with Oral Sex
Oral sex or fellatio is the sexual activity of sucking or moving the tongue across the penis in order to give pleasure and excitement.
Remember your covenant
1 Corinthians 7:2-5 MSG certainly—but only within a certain context. It’s good for a man to have a wife, and for a woman to have a husband. Sexual drives are strong, but marriage is strong enough to contain them and provide for a balanced and fulfilling sexual life in a world of sexual disorder. The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to “stand up for your rights.” Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. Abstaining from sex is permissible for a period of time if you both agree to it, and if it’s for the purposes of prayer and fasting—but only for such times. Then come back together again. Satan has an ingenious way of tempting us when we least expect it.
Here are some hang up reasons why wives don’t want to perform oral sex
Think how precious your husband is to you or I should say how precious he should be to you. Loving every part of your husband makes him feel wanted. When you unlock the door to your mouth upon his penis you will give him a joy a pleasure a satisfaction that he will reciprocate back to you and it doesn’t have to be performing oral sex on you but pleasing you in your needs, your wants he would be more attentive to your needs sexual or not. You are stirring an area that will expand his heart greatly to you. Let me say it this way you will have a satisfied husband and you will be a happy wife with a happy life.
In regards to the hang-ups what I am seeing basically is
(1) You need to renew your mind to oral sex (fellatio) toward your husband, Romans 12:2 and be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
(2) Those who were sexually abused, sexually assaulted if you seek healing and wholeness from God he can restore your sex drive and a sexiness toward your husband but you have to want it and not wallow in self-pity.
(3) Shower. Suggest to your honey to shower before you orally stimulate him.
(4) Finally, I would say practice makes perfect. Communicate to see what he likes and practice, practice, practice. Okay! This is your man be vulnerable and enjoy exploring his body!
To begin putting the pieces together for a Marriage Made in Heaven on Earth please Listen to Pleasure Your Husband Show PYH 106: Oral Sex 1.
Dy Wakefield is a Multi-Genre Author, Radio Host, Social Entrepreneur & Pilot in Training. I have dedicated my life to Empower Wives by Awakening the Sexual Prowess inside for their husbands, 1 Corinthians 7:3 NLT version states the husband should Fulfill his Wife's Sexual Needs. There is an inner Sex Vixen inside created by God that you haven’t tapped into. Sex & Sex Drive is a Gift from God. When you are pleasuring your husband you are pleasing God because you are performing Acts of Love and Service. You came into a covenant with God and your husband so it’s not an emotional thing but a mutual agreement.